the inner drive: understanding your sexual essence

A man who is mistrustful and self-centered finds it difficult to truly listen. His mind is filled with his own fears, judgments, and emotions. When someone—perhaps a woman close to him—tries to share her feelings, he does not really hear her. Instead, he listens through the filter of

We men often search for enemies in all the wrong places. The colleague who interrupts our presentation, the driver who cuts us off, the partner who forgets an anniversary—these become convenient targets for our explosive anger. We blame them for ruining our day, for triggering our rage, for making

We spend much of our lives running from loneliness, crafting elaborate strategies to outsmart its persistent presence. We chase romantic ideals, believing that somewhere exists a perfect partner who will dissolve our solitude completely. We imagine that the right relationship will fill every hollow space, that another person can become