love

don’t try to control your partner’s behavior

“You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.” ― Thich Nhat Hanh

If you’re in a relationship with someone and if you’re always trying to control your partner, telling them to do this or not do that, then it’s a clear indicator that you don’t actually love your partner; the relationship has morphed into a constant battle of control, which never leads to anything good.

When you try to control your romantic partner, you choose self-centredness over selflessness. It reveals that your actions are driven by fear and insecurity. Don’t let these toxic emotional states affect your relationship and your life, instead, choose the path of love and groundedness. In doing so, you’ll be able to master yourself and your relationship.

the myth of the everlasting love affair

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accepting the perpetual nature of relationship challenges

In the realm of human relationships, we often find ourselves caught in a peculiar illusion. We tend to view the turbulence and difficulties we encounter as temporary roadblocks, mere bumps on the road to an imagined state of perpetual harmony. This perspective leads us to engage in what can be

letting go of false love stories: the importance of intentionality in romantic relationships

In the quest for love, it is easy to fall into the trap of romanticizing brief, fleeting connections. We meet someone who captivates us on a first date, and suddenly, we envision a future filled with shared experiences, deep conversations, and mutual growth. However, it is crucial to recognize that

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